From $50 to $500: How Much Should You Really Spend on a Wedding Gift?
Whether you're attending a wedding of a friend, coworker, family member, choosing the right gift can be tricky, especially when you do not know how much to spend. You're not alone in this, as wedding gift expectations have shifted over the years. Today, there is more flexibility than ever in wedding gift etiquette.
Of course, there are many factors that can contribute to the amount you spend on a wedding gift. It can depend on your income, how well you know the couple, how far you traveled, or even if you're part of the wedding party. Read on to learn more about the average spending ranges for gift giving for weddings to give you an idea on what is affordable in your budget.
Gift Price Range
Acquaintances
It is perfectly acceptable to spend less when you are attending a wedding of an acquaintance. An acquaintance is a friend of a friend, coworker, neighbor, community group member, etc. The average wedding gift price range is $50 - $100 for an acquaintance. The acquaintance is someone that you know with a friendly connection but not deeply personal. Therefore, spending within that price range is the expectation.
Close friends and family members
When it comes to close friends and family, wedding gift expectations are a bit higher because the relationship is more personal and meaningful. They are someone who has played a major role in your life, therefore you should expect to spend $100 - $250 on their wedding gift. It’s customary to give a more generous gift as a reflection of your connection and support. This range allows a more meaningful gift, whether it's a high-quality item from their registry, or a personalized keepsake.
Immediate family
Immediate family includes the people closest to the bride and groom by blood, adoption, or marriage. These family members include parents, step parents, siblings, stepsiblings, children, and grandparents. Typically most people spend anywhere from $250 - $500 on a wedding gift. If a more expensive gift isn't possible for you at the moment, organizing or contributing to a group gift with other family members can be a thoughtful and budget-friendly alternative.
Cash or Gift?
Both cash and traditional presents are great options when it comes to wedding gifting. With either you can't go wrong! In fact, some couples prefer cash to add to their savings!
Should You Give a Gift if You Can't Attend?
Even if you're unable to attend the wedding, it is recommended to send a gift to the newlyweds to thank them for inviting you to their celebration. It’s a thoughtful gesture that shows appreciation for the invitation and well wishes for their new chapter together. A good idea is check the couple's registry and get a gift from there. Use our price ranges, listed in this blog as a suggestion.
Now that you have an idea of how much to spend on the wedding gift, here are a few ideas of unique personalized gifts.
